{"id":502,"date":"2018-04-25T17:30:05","date_gmt":"2018-04-25T17:30:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/?p=502"},"modified":"2018-04-25T17:30:05","modified_gmt":"2018-04-25T17:30:05","slug":"dont-let-the-gate-hit-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/?p=502","title":{"rendered":"DON&#8217;T LET THE GATE HIT YOU"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">MANY A TIME <\/span><\/strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">I have been tempted to tell some person &#8220;Don&#8217;t let the gate hit you on the ass on your way out.&#8221;\u00a0 Most of the time this is the result of dealing with someone who has been watching too many &#8216;picker&#8217; shows on the television.\u00a0 Vegas Rat Rods is another &#8216;bad influence&#8217; on TV.\u00a0 These programs seem to teach the viewer that throwing out a &#8216;<strong>LOW-BALL&#8217; <\/strong>offer is an appropriate technique for dealing with someone selling vintage goods.<br \/>\n<strong>THIS <\/strong>particular &#8216;RANT&#8217; comes as a result of having to deal with someone who I will loosely refer to as a &#8216;friend&#8217; who I have known for over 40 years.\u00a0 The point here is that I place a high value upon friendship; however, friendship shouldn&#8217;t come at a cost.\u00a0 I threw him a fair offer for some parts- which was about 40 % less than I would have asked for a newby customer. He proceeded to offer me 20% of my asking price. I thought he was joking.\u00a0 After going back and forth for another 15 minutes we were $20. bucks apart.\u00a0 Bottom line here is he left empty- handed.\u00a0 Frankly, I don&#8217;t much care if he comes back or not.<br \/>\n<strong>THE <\/strong>takeaway here is that when I give out a price quote, I try to come up with a figure that is fair on both sides. I will even ask some people if they think this is a fair price.\u00a0 I might even round out the price if you are buying in quantity and I am not doing all the work.\u00a0 (I watch those shows too.)\u00a0 You also need to remember that I have bills and a mortgage to pay too.<br \/>\n<strong>IF <\/strong>you throw out a counter-offer that is 50% less than what I am asking you are telling me two things:\u00a0 You think my ask is 100% over-priced.\u00a0 You don&#8217;t respect me.\u00a0 You do not come to my yard and dis-respect me.\u00a0 Time for you to leave.<br \/>\n<strong>I&#8217;m <\/strong>a firm believer in &#8216;The Golden Rule&#8217;:\u00a0 Not the one where &#8220;He who has the most gold rules&#8221;, but &#8220;Treat others as you would have them treat you.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<div id=\"attachment_504\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-504\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-504\" src=\"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/GM-Wheels-006-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/GM-Wheels-006-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/GM-Wheels-006-768x576.jpg 768w, http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/GM-Wheels-006-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/GM-Wheels-006-600x450.jpg 600w, http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/GM-Wheels-006.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-504\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA<\/p><\/div>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #000080;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>MANY A TIME I have been tempted to tell some person &#8220;Don&#8217;t let the gate hit you on the ass on your way out.&#8221;\u00a0 Most of the time this is the result of dealing with someone who has been watching too many &#8216;picker&#8217; shows on the television.\u00a0 Vegas Rat Rods is another &#8216;bad influence&#8217; on&#8230;  <a class=\"excerpt-read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/?p=502\" title=\"Read DON&#8217;T LET THE GATE HIT YOU\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":503,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/502"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=502"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/502\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":505,"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/502\/revisions\/505"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=502"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=502"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/chromenrust.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=502"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}